Am i just way too paranoid?

my boyfriend was cheating on me with a girl he met in a different city. see hes been staying by his friends' place, in a different city, way too much. but i trusted him and thought he was just having fun with the guys since all his friends no longer lived in our area. once he told me about this other girl i got paranoid and went on myspace trying to search under her name and city. i assumed he met her through his friends but i couldnt find anyone like that. uh he told me this girl was an alcoholic and pretty boring. just as i was giving up on my retarded search i found a girl that may have fit these details. she had the first name that he told me, she was in the city that he met 'her', she talked about drinking way too much...shes a journalism major and her site sure did bore me, and her blogs seemed to talk about a guy that wasn't clear about his feelings. the blogs were around the same time my guy was cheating.. i added her. no clue why! the next day she deleted her

Am i just way too paranoid?

Well in my opinion if he cheated on you then you have already given this way too much effort much less thought .I would find someone whom I thought I could trust rather than let myself fret over this young man.

Am i just way too paranoid?

Yup, I afraid so.

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Am i just way too paranoid?

He cheated..? Why are you even still with him?

You're not paranoid..you have no reason to ever trust him again .. he cheated.

Am i just way too paranoid?

so she know everything about you ... try with a fake id .. maybe a fishing site of your bf or a similar one and talk to her over chat prefereble and see whats up.. and then dont disclose this to anyone .. not even your bf

Regards

Sameer

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Am i just way too paranoid?

If he cheated then you have a reason to be this way but you shouldn't have to go through all that drama just to find out if he's cheating or not. I think you should dump him unless he's changed and is gonna start to treat you better. She deleted you from her myspace because she's a coward and doesn't want you to find out about her.