Thursday, December 3, 2009

Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

play games...



there's this guy i've been like seeing for like 2 months and he tells me he misses me and that he likes me , he says it's a good thing cause he does'nt usually like girls.



then everytime he's drunk he asks me if i like him....obviously i do if i drive down to see him all the time.



he texts me that " AREN'T YOU TIRED OF THE GAMES GUYS AND GIRLS PLAY...LIKE I WANT TO STOP BUT I FEEL IF I PUT ANY KIND OF TRUST IN A GIRL I'D GET ****** OVER.



he had an ex that he loved and he said they went out for like 2 yrs and broken up for like a yr ago.



In his myspace he has all these pictures of him and different girls......



What do i do??



Is he Messing with my head



pleasee help me .



Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

Pleasee take it slow with him, many guys who are hurt often use girls to prove to themselves that they are "still the man" or to gain control because they lost control when they were vulnerable and were hurt. Some of those men become players, or they become incapable of having a healthy relationship because they become clingy or they become unresponsive/incapable of loving some1



Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

take a break and see if he still wants you



Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

tell him he needs to learn to trust you and that you really like him but you dont like the way he is while he is drunk.......and about the myspace thing, just let it go maybe he has had a lot of friends that are girls.



Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

maybe hes bi..



or just has lots of girls as friends



Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

ask him. if he really likes you then he'll be truthful. if not then tell him that if you can't trust him then you two can't have a relationship.



Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

maybe your he's rebound girl. know what i mean? dont't give in until he's fully recovered with his ex. and if i you feel that he really cares for you



Why do guys?....................I NEED ADVICE please?

Once a guy has been really hurt by a girl it is hard for him to trust others. It will probably take a lot of work on your part to get him to really trust you so you should decide if its worth the effort.

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