Theres this boy...?

His name is Luis. He's on MySpace but theres a huge problem...we are both in different states! We met not too long ago and I...well...fell in love with him and he loves me back. Sometimes I think he is lying to me but I can't tell if he is or not? My point is, how can I find out if he might be hanging out with another girl in his state and not telling me about it?

Theres this boy...?

View his friends and read his comments.

Theres this boy...?

You can never trust Myspace or other chat websites about dating things and stuff. He's either going with someone else, an Internet predator (which will suck for you) or he's just catching your attention. Either way, don't trust him.

I_Spearedyou - have you helped a friend today?

Theres this boy...?

i wouldnt trust anything on the internet

and definately not start a relationship

Theres this boy...?

im glad that u found ur love, thats a really hard thing to do, but if you cant trust him, then thats not a very good relationship, think about it, but if you really like him ask him to come to wherever you live or you n visit him!!

Theres this boy...?

long distance relationships dont work out

id doubt ur will

u dont know the guy and what he does

he could be cheating on u for all i know

u shudnt trust myspace

Theres this boy...?

so does he like you and you like him cuase you just met online and never in person?

oh-oh... that cant be good...

Theres this boy...?

No way you can find out.. people lie. Only way is for you to go to his state and live with him for a week. I mean you can ask him about life and bring up that topic, but who knows he is going to be truthful about it?

Especially when you say he likes you too, there is no way he is going to say "yeah i messed around with this girl the other night".

but good luck.... don't worry about it! If you really like him, then you guys should visit each other again and see how it goes

Theres this boy...?

For starters, how in the world do you 'fall in love' with a MYSPACE kid?!? you have never met him before or seen him in person. How do you know that isn't really him??

Oh and:

you can never REALLY know if he is with other girls just by lookin at his comments, i mean hello, he's in another state. trust will probably be an issue....

If i was you, i'd drop it.

Theres this boy...?

u never know but its not safe

he could be the total opposite of wut they say they r

a lot of guys do that

n sumthin really bad could happen

i suggest u find sumone whom u can see face 2 face almost every day

Theres this boy...?

get over it. long distance relationships don't work at all.

Theres this boy...?

NEVER DATE SOMEONE YOU MET ON MYSPACE!!!!!!!

Theres this boy...?

hmm....

Well, maybe if you guys talk on the phone, just ask him. Therefore, he wont have as much time to think about what he is going to say to you, vs. him having about 10 minutes to respond to you online.

Another piece of advice, is to tell him you trust him, and have him tell you he trusts you back (if it is really that serious between you two).

My last piece of advice, is just to stop if you are that suspicious. You don't even know if he is who he is...(or maybe you do, I can't tell by the info you gave me...haha)

Enjoy!

=P

Theres this boy...?

well the thing is long distance relationships rarely work and even if it would work you would never see each other. i hope you didn't give him your actual address because you never know... he could be a rapist or a serial killer

Theres this boy...?

don't worry yourself about it.

no matter what you think you and this guy aren't an item and you aren't exclusive to each other. you are not going out, you are not meeting on dates, you are not doing anything exclusive with each other.

and, importantly, he is NOT your boyfriend so what does it matter whether or not he's hanging out with other people? It has no bearing on your relationship with him because despite what you might think, you do NOT have a relationship with him.

just stop torturing yourself and enjoy talking to him.

Theres this boy...?

Track him down

Theres this boy...?

never trust mysape. i'm guessing he is probably like a 47 year old man who wants to do you know what to u don't trust him....

here maybe this will help:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21882976/

sorry to break it to you but better be safe than sorry.