Sunday, December 6, 2009

How can i be myself more?

i feel like i cant be myself around people. this is because i have a lot of different interest. some are not everyones cup of tea, like music etc. whenever i try to be myself, like if i talk about my veganism or my musical interests, i feel like people are judging me or they might get upset by my interests. so i close my expression. but this makes me an extremely dull person. i have so many philosophical pursuits etc. but i keep it all bottled up. i am an adult btw, not some teenager even.



i mainly am thinking about my myspace. i have so many friends on it of all different kinds. i find myself completely not talking on it at all because im afraid people are judging me. should i remain quiet or let the volcano go all the hell lose and risk losing friends. seems like my friends are so judgemental. i dont know whats up.



How can i be myself more?

hey, dont be friends with those who dorsnt like u for who u r. make some quality friends. the number is not important, wats important is to have friends that care about u.



gd luck



How can i be myself more?

Just be yourself. I am the same way, different, It could be I grew up differently than some of my friends. I personally think it's fun to argue out about what music is better or who beleives in what because we always end up laughing over how different we are. So my advice to you is to be yourself, if your friends judge you by it, their not good friends.



How can i be myself more?

how can you have so many freinds if they really dont know who you really are? If you express your likes and dislikes wont others that have similar intrest try to become your freinds? YOU cant expect to live your life without really living life can you?



How can i be myself more?

o, boy. being irritating and a bigot about veganism doesn't mean being yourself. it means u have bad manners. u might share your interests with other people without bigotting about them. like if a am a bodybuilder and i find vegetarianism anacceptable for me it doesn't mean i should kill u for u being a veg. i have several friends who are vegeterians, we are fine. all my friends are very far from bodybuilding but we still go out and find smth in common to talk. llisten what others have to say and be genuinly interested in them. it doesn't mean u re not who u re, it means u re polite, pleasant person (which u obviously are not)



How can i be myself more?

hey, keep positive thinking !



dont think they r juging u. maybe its u who r juging them wrong.



if there 'friends' as u said. and they r really juging u, then, they r not 'friends'.



u should try to ask them friendly with a lil smile whether they found that u have strange interest !



u r who u r... dont change urself so that they accept u.



be urself! if they dont appreciate, others will ...



gd luck!



How can i be myself more?

dnt change 4 any 1 be urself mate u are u 4 a reason ur unique one of a kind



How can i be myself more?

You are who you are and that's the way it is. I used to be the same way, until I got tired of people telling me who what I should be and do. I decided it just didn't suit me anymore to continue being an intravert. Then I started to tell others what I thought and wanted too much, I became opionated. Now im older and im just me. With all our flaws our abilitys and all. It doesn't matter what others think of u it's what u think of u thats most important.And in the end you are the judge of your own self worth. so dont b afraid express yourself and like it.

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