ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

Your significant other tries to arrange and dinner date with someone they met online for when they are out of town visiting family and you are not invited to travel along. The date never happens but you find out threw old emails in the sent folder. Over time you forgive them. Six months or so later they arrange to met for a drink with someone else they met online. This does take place. You find out and are told it was kept secret becuz they were planning an exciting evening for you and want to surprise you. Days later you forgive them. This same thing happens two more times with different people involved and slightly different excuses. Do you believe them when they say there was no sexual contact? Even if next thing they tell you is that they have a few undisclosed emails and myspace site they chat on? Even after having been told that you know it all now still each day a little more truth seems to come out? If yes, why? Should you be expected 2 simply get over it without discussing it?

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

Good LORD Woman wake up and smell the cheating!!

I don't mean to sound so harsh hun, for many people, recogonizing that their spouse is cheating and ACCEPTING that are some very hard things to accept/deal with.

He's lying and lying and lying! If you have children, you need to protect them and get out or change the locks on the door and kick him out. Either way this is NOT healthy even if you have no kids.

I'm sorry this has happened, but when you 'don't trust your instincts' that were telling you all along that 'there was something wrong', and continue to ignore it, then you are just as responsible as he at this point.

It's your turn to take action. You have NO IDEA what diseases he is bringing home to you and you don't deserve to be disrespected like that. And pardon my french but what a P*ssy for not telling you he wasn't happy, or wanted out, or whatever was going on. At the end of the day, you deserve better.... tell him to F off with the lies and not to let the door hit him in the azz! OMG I'm so sorry for you.

50% of marriages have had a cheating partner........ do NOT assume you are in the 'other 50%' because chances are - you aren't!

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

Jesus, I hate people like you...

"My boyfriend slams the door on my head and pours bleach inside my vag1na. Does he still love me??"

If this stuff has happened four or five times, don't believe him. Your forgiving him is just a get out of jail card so he can go and do it again. He takes your forgivness for granted.

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

no...nothing happened usually means something did...the fact u let it slide that many times shows him that he can do it as much as he wants with no consequences...lose him

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

Something is going on. Even if they haven't done anything wrong yet, they are toying with the idea, and I think you should not believe them. Obviously they need to use the internet less. If your going to believe them then I would ask them not to use the internet at all anymore. Not at home OR work OR anywhere.

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

Sorry

But most times this is just an excuse.

Ask to be let in on the dinner when he makes this kind of date. If he says no, than there is your answer. If he says yeah OK and then goes behind your back and goes out on this dinner date again without telling you or inviting you, that's probably a good indication that he is cheating on you.

Sucks that some people are so cruel in their actions towards people they say they love.

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

The guy does not love you. He would not make you suffer if he loved you. Get a "real man" instead of this Jerk!

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

IF NOTHING HAPPENED WHY IS HE TALKING ABOUT IT? NO ONE LIKES REJECTION AND NO PARTNER SHOULD CONFESS THAT HE TRIED TO CHEAT ON YOU IF NOTHING HAPPENED BECAUSE HE IS WORKING YOU UP FOR NO REASON IF NOTHING HAPPENED.GO NOW BEFORE HE REALLY HURTS YOU

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

he cheated on you several times that you know of. Your gut is telling you the truth. But you aren't sure. Well if you don't mind being told excuses... then stay with him. But you already know the truth. It's time to move on with your life, and it should be without him.

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

I am so sorry that you are hurting. To be betrayed by someone you love is so hard. Remember it is not about you or anything that you are or aren't doing. It is a weakness that he has. If I was involved in this, it would be hard for me to see clearly too, because they are telling you one thing and you are finding out others. How confusing and hurtful it must be for you. No, I personally would not believe him when he said nothing happened. Something did happen. You have listed many things that he has done to damage the relationship and love that you have for each other. Whether or not there was sex or not, will probably not be known. What you do know is:

He is arranging to meet with women on line.

Some questions I would ask are:

Why would he meet with women on line to plan an exciting evening with you?

Does a married man need to create a myspace in order to plan an exciting evening out for you?

What do the e-mails say?Are they all business and do they mention you as the main reason that they are writing together? My guess is you will not be able to see all the e-mails or view the myspace. And if so, it is not about an exciting evening that they are creating to show you how you are loved. To me, and I could be wrong, it sounds like he is continuing a cycle of being untruthful and you are beginning to hear all of the different things that are happening that get in the way of having a healthy loving relationship. Sometimes, it helps to pretend the situation is happening to your best friend. List all the things that you have found out or that have happened. Think about if a friend told you that her husband was doing them...........what advice would you give her? That's the advice you should give yourself.

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

By your posting this question it is obvious that you don't believe him but you are holding onto false hope. You're going to do what you want to do in the end. Just make up you mind and plan what your next step is going to be before you act.

ShOuLd YOU BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS NOTHING HAPPENED?

boring story... 2 much blah blah..

abt ur Q, if i trust him, i'll believe him!